It does not work that way, you would only see those icons after a successful carplay/android auto pair.
Before changing the APIM, install HN1T-14G381-SA - SYNC 3 APIM Software (IVSU) Database - CyanLabs , which is 2.2.17011.
Once it’s installed, try again and run an interrogator log and share the results (the actual file, no copy&paste). If you can try with Android Auto (since it’s more forgiving), it would be best.. If not, make sure your cable is certified…
About the HUB part number, did you validated against → Media Hub, CarPlay Compatible - 2015-2020 Ford/Lincoln - SYNC 3 ?